A lot has happened over the past month.
A friend of mine is going through a personal crisis and I'm trying to do what I can, but it just isn't enough and I feel helpless.
I am once again living on my own and am finding that I like the solitude, but still wish there was someone there.
I went back to the hair sex guru and had another uncomfortable experience, I don't think I'll be going back.
The friend I decided to take to another level fizzled pretty quickly, physically it just wasn't there and while it is weird, we're still friends.
About a year ago I was sent someone on "Saw you at Sinai" and we decided not to go out after a phone call. I bumped into his friend before Memorial Day and he thought we should look into it again. We've been seeing each other (according to him we're dating) but I still have my issues. I like going out with him but...... I'm just not there yet, and he knows this, but he is willing to let me take my time.
Wow that IS a lot. I think the fact that the current friend allows you time and hopefully space is a good sign on his part. It show's he's patient and understanding. It takes time to build a true relationship...hope things go well for you and next month should have only happy updates.
ReplyDeleteThank You! Hope to hear good news from you too!
ReplyDeleteHaving read your blog, you seem "aidel" enough. I do think that it gets much harder to meet someone as you get older. Even on the conservative to culturally jewish end of the scale, as people get older, their personalities seem to get a little stronger and their willingness to overlook flaws gets a little weaker. I am someone who married young (by ordinary standards, not right wing orthodox), so I don't have your dating experience.
ReplyDeleteI wonder if one key to finding a match is finding someone who is still flexible.
Good luck and I hope you find whatever you need