Another One Bites The Dust - Again

Here's a new one! A couple gets divorced, they enter into relationships with others and then find themselves back with their Ex.

I have friends who are divorced and I have seen what it does to them, I know it it is emotionally gut wrenching, etc.... But, does that give them the right to be callous with other people's feelings? As someone who I guess could be called "the other woman" I knew I was being used, but when someone tells you all things you want to hear, it's hard not to believe it. When someone uses the word "Bashert" how can you not fall? The "relationship" we had was over long before his reconciliation, but how uncomfortable will it be when we run into each other and he is with his wife! Was he honest with her? Does she know about me?

The odd thing is that a friend of mine has recently gone through the same thing. Should I be worried about dating divorced guys now? I have always been open minded about it, but now I'm not so sure.

Thinking back to where I was when I was dating him, I am such a different person now.

I have rediscovered who I am and what I want. I will not be rushed into something just because I have nothing else. I will take my time and trust my instincts. I've waited this long, what's another couple of weeks?